Subs sometimes fall into a brief depression after an intense scene. It’s considered the dom’s responsibility to bring a sub back down to earth at the end, make sure that person is calmed down, caressed, checked in with, okay.īottom Drop: n. It turns out that is only because of their credit card company, says “we don’t want to have anything to do with that fetish.” apologetic about it.

Fetlife bans any mention of the word scat. Kink play that involves electrically-charged : stun guns, cattle prods, Violet WandsĮlla Fitzgerald: People have to say “I’m a fan of Ella Fitzgerald.” Acting like one person is an adult and one person is a child.

I spoke to someone and she said, yes, she has had sex stuff happen in the context of grooming the horse.Īge Play: n. That’s the play for them: It’s just to show off how much they can act like a horse. “I am a wild Mustang.” Some are into dressage, being paraded around on show. And they’ll have a kind of horse that they are. Those people are buying expensive horse gear, like saddles. People who are really into pony play…you don’t hear about sex happening. The way I’ve usually seen it is that a younger person will want to run around with a muzzle on, barking, with a buttplug in that’s got a tail. The weird part is that they also molest them. The dom treats them the way that a dog trainer would. Where the submissive takes the role of literally being like a canine. I don’t know how much I believe in that or not.Īnimal Play: n. A person is just in their brain freaking out.Į.g. That part of play where nothing has actually even started happening. A synonym for “dominance and submission.” The more playful it is, the more there’s a feel of “Ahh, this is new.” People do like to feel like it’s adult play, playtime Play: n. Basically an easier way of saying ‘let’s have sex’ ‘do you want to play?’ People will tag that on the end of different branches of kink, like puppy play. I’d prefer that you not talk about scat play at lunch because it squicks me out. If you start take a shit on me, I'll safe-word immediately and end the scene. Į.g I'd really rather not go there unless you want to in a huge way and you go into it slowly. Protocol: n. Although there are plenty of stereotypical manners that people employ, it's usually a person-to-person agreed-upon thing. People draw up contracts, mostly for 24/7, not usually initial encounters It can be kind of a seductive, fun, fantasy-filled conversation. Before the scene ever starts (a lot of people like to do it a couple days before) people talk as human beings, outside of roles: limits, preferences, that kind of stuff. Can I tell you who you’re gonna vote for for president? Could be literally age play, someone pretending to be young.Ģ4/7: Į.g. a little bit more sweet and nurturing, like a tough-love coach at times.”īrat: n. The agreement was that he would pay a very low rent and in exchange he would keep the house clean, and also just be my sexual plaything whenever I wanted.ĭaddy Dom or Sensual Dom: n. A person who can be dominant and can be submissive, but does not identify as always a dom or always a sub A dom or sub has a higher-status or lower-status psychological role that they are playing. There’s more psychological weight on the idea of being a dom or a sub, a top or a bottom is someone who is basically just doing or being done to. A person who is dominant/a person who is submissive. In kink play, a person who is doing something to a bottom.ĭom/sub: n. In scat, the person being pooped on is the bottom.

In any activity, someone who is being done to rather than the doer.Į.g. Sexual activity that is generally accepted as normal.īottom: n. Pain can be perceived as pleasurable if you’re going about it differently. I met a guy in Amsterdam who said that everything is kink. There is not a finite number of ways to do it. Thinking of sex as a limitless adventure. Any fetish that has an erotic charge to it would be called kinky. Kevin Allison.īDSM: Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism All other text is directly quoted from Mr. Brackets denote paraphrasing by the author.

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